Would there be a way to call a meeting of parishoners (without including the staff)? Just to see what others have to say? Or, at the very least, in socializing with others before/after service, sort of feel things out in how others might be perceiving things? Because if there's going to be some turnaround, you will need a majority support of others, and their ideas. So, casually scoping things out over the next few weeks might give you some answers.

On the other hand, if it turns out that you are in the minority, then I don't see a problem with finding a place that *does* suit you. To me, the whole idea of choosing a church and denomination is based on finding a place where God speaks to you, and where you feel supported in that pursuit, and if you cannot find it in one place, I don't see why it's wrong to find a place that *does* suit you.