Hurm. I identify myself as an asexual person, so you are free to feel as if I am talking out of my ass. :D But I suspect that our carnal urges are a fundimental part of us but how we react to them is a choice.

In fifty years when all of this has been sorted out and gayness is a respected freedom in our land, I think that there will be an established sexual morality for Christian GLB-folk. Sex outside the boundaries of a committed relationship, sex with someone who is committed to someone else, sex between people who are unable or unwilling to give consent -- these are temptations to GLB-Christians as much as they are to heterosexual Christians, and I suspect that they are expected to master those temptations in the same manner.