funny, i will join being Catholic and feminist makes me a bad feminist to some circles.

reflecting on the response they gave...I just think people with NO perspective on your family can even think about having an opinion. We on LJ only know what you tell us but the scenario you painted seemed right in line with what we know about your family. You're a great equal opportunity mom. If you had a son he probably would have cried right along with delia and fiona. :)