Yeah, that's kind of where I am too. There really doesn't seem to be a superabundance of feminism; the ease with which the same dopey stereotypes arise at the slightest provocation alarms me; and I don't see the provocation in the same light as I otherwise might, even.

And yes, indeed, making something new because nothing existing fills your requirements, is a fine thing.

I don't join LJ communities, though. One must draw the line somewhere, or one would get nothing done at all.

P.