This is exactly what I thought. My cousin's husband blew up at her early in their marriage because she was such a half-assed housekeeper (this is a second cousin who's nearly 70, so expectations were somewhat different), and his example was that it looked to him as though she had not wiped off the top of the fridge in the six months they'd been married. She silently marched him into the kitchen, held her hand out at her own line of sight at 5'2", then reached up to indicate his at 6'4", then handed him a rag. He never said another word about it.