I haven't looked at the web site (I believe there's still a mirror extant though); so this is general rather than specific. But, generally, "it was just a joke" is a mighty thin excuse most times it's deployed. So is "it was just intended for friends." Fine, you didn't want us to notice you liked hate-based bigoted humor? Makes sense. But if you do, it's relevant, and I want to know.

I *have* heard of people getting bent out of shape about jokes or private opinions that seemed perfectly reasonable to me sometimes. People draw their lines in different places. I appreciate some levels of black humor that some people don't. I like some kinds of jokes based on geek culture that could be viewed as anti-geek, especially if you didn't know much about geeks.