I struggle with this constantly, Peg. Although I'm writing, sometimes it feels like I'm just spinning my wheels, and then I'll kill a whole weekend doing something pointless like watching an entire season of "Supernatural" and I feel like I'm letting my creative gifts die on the vine for lack of water.

And I totally feel you about the unfriending thing. I've had that happen, and while you're right in that we can't know why, it always feels icky.