Hey, you friended me first, lady, so don't think I'm about to step away now. I'm not that easy to get rid of!

Seriously, it's tough taking a hard look at the labels we have applied to ourselves for a long time and seeing that some of them don't quite fit any more. It's even harder to be honest about them, and damn difficult to admit publically that they don't all work like they used to. Kudos to you for doing all three -- that ain't easy, or common.

What you are isn't as important as who you are. You are simply shedding some of the what while retaining true to the who. How can that be wrong?