Article re: treatment of depression
Happiness: Enough Already
The push for ever-greater well-being is facing a backlash, fueled by research on the value of sadness.
I am trying to figure out why this article upsets me so much. I guess because several members of my family (including me) are on medication for mood disorders. I read this as insinuating that perhaps we are just a little too eager to forego a truly authentic life in exchange for a surcease of the pain of depression. Well, actually, the article is talking about the pain of sadness, which it seems to conflate with depression.
Am I over-reacting? Your reactions?
The push for ever-greater well-being is facing a backlash, fueled by research on the value of sadness.
I am trying to figure out why this article upsets me so much. I guess because several members of my family (including me) are on medication for mood disorders. I read this as insinuating that perhaps we are just a little too eager to forego a truly authentic life in exchange for a surcease of the pain of depression. Well, actually, the article is talking about the pain of sadness, which it seems to conflate with depression.
Am I over-reacting? Your reactions?
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Also, the average living environment induces more misery than joy. We start in emotional debt, if you like, and I see nothing wrong with educating people on how to bank their happiness and find ways to make it earn interest. What's next, research on the character-building value of paying off student loans and subprime mortgages?
"Over-reacting"???
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Bah humbug.
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Interesting how our own perspectives affected our reading of the article!
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One of the hardest things one of my medicated friends has had to deal with is the idea that it's okay--even as someone who's on anti-depressants--to feel sad. That it's okay, that it doesn't mean your meds need fixed, or that you'll never be happy again. And i remember when I moved to Boston, and came out of a serious bout of situational depression, that I had those scary scary days too, where I was sad and I had to convince myself that it was okay.
I think what the article is saying is just that people who don't need them, shouldn't be on antidepressants. What this 'backlash' seems to be is a) the idea that being sad is a bad thing and b) against the idea that taking pills solves the problems. Which is okay for chemical issues, such as my friend has, but may not be as much help for things like situational depression where the best help is changing the situation. The examples they're giving are things that you'd probably consider as 'natural' sadnesses--I think it's fine to be depressed and mope after a breakup. I think there is a line which can be crossed where said broken-up person would benefit from something to help them get better, but I don't disagree with the saddness, just with the magnitude of the sadness.
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P.
95% agreement, but....
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Re: 95% agreement, but....
I meant to say that possibly the individual people mentioned at the beginning of the article (who were experiencing normal, temporary sadness, if the narrative is to be trusted) perhaps didn't need anti-depressants; and certainly I should have said that other individual people might have perfectly good reasons for eschewing anti-depressants. The success rate of such substances isn't all that high, alas, and I don't think people should be on them who don't want to. But I could tell by the tone of the article that all these anecdotes were going to be pressed into service to prop up a set of the same old invalid arguments.
P.
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I believe in being sad for certain things and certain limits of time and beyond some reasonable length of time seeking help. And obviously the loss of someone important takes a long time.
And depression should be treated be it therapy and or drugs.
I do think people like myself are susceptible to falling into situational depression that may start out with being sad though. I think left too long without any kind of support, help, treatment sadness triggers depression. I think the key identifier for do I need help is when you can't do the things you need to do and the things you use to enjoy doing. Most head doctors use the two week time frame loosely but I don't think that's without merit.
I just think the article was poorly written as I often find with Newsweek.
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Frankly, I don't think genuine happiness is either so prevalent or over-valued that one needs to write a book decrying it.
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I also react badly to people who act like antidepressants make people happy. I have met dozens of people who take antidepressants. Some of them found that their current meds worked for their depression and some did not, but not a single one reported being hap-hap-HAPPY all the time. If they were supposed to be happy pills they would be an utter failure for all patients instead of a moderate success for some.
Me, I got the easy brain chemistry. I don't think that this is because I am a better person than people whose brain chemistry inclines them towards depression or other mood disorders, any more than my tendency towards vertigo makes me a worse person than those whose middle and inner ears don't try to dump them on the ground on a regular basis. If someone suggested that I shouldn't seek treatment for my vertigo because other people don't fall over as much as I do and I should just suck it up and deal because that's life, I would tend to get a little upset with them as well.
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It disturbs me to see everyone being put on anti-depressants when it is episodic sadness or grief, because that is not the same as clinical depression. I'm all for the millions of people that need and are helped by these medications, they are literally lifesavers, however it sickens me that so many of our problems aren't even bothered to be properly diagnosed without slapping on a medical bandaid.
I also think the article isn't attacking anyone on anti-depressants for depression, I think it is trying more to say just that for those that are sad for specific reasons, or just aren't Mary F. Sunshine, that they aren't ill, they aren't unjustified. I think a LOT of people have been in that boat- "well, I'm still sad that I've lost someone, I guess I should be over it, everyone tells me so, there must me something wrong with me" is quite different than the apathetic bleakness of depression, but our society no longer distinguishes the difference.
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I think you're taking the article (or perhaps more accurately, the attitude of the author of the book that this article is reviewing) a little too personally. There are some good points here, as well as a bit of "make an outrageous statement in the title of your book and you'll sell a lot more copies." I haven't read the book, but it doesn't sound like the author is actually arguing against the reality of organic depression or saying that genuine mood disorders shouldn't be treated; he seems to be suggesting that mood disorders are over-diagnosed. It's not about you and your mood disorder.
In short, if the shoe doesn't fit, don't wear it.
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(I mostly think of this in relation to homosexuality and college girls who are nominally bisexual, and primarily when they're drunk... not to say that there aren't plenty of people who are bisexual and plenty of ways to express sexuality, but I feel like the phenomena I'm describing is legitimate and not just prejudice on my part... and I think that it exists in the area of mental health as well.)
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Yes, I think you're overreacting, but not too much and for the right reasons. The problem with smoothing out the lows is that it smoothes out the highs as well. Life, as the Buddhists say, is suffering. The good stuff is, all too often, few and far between. Most people (it seems) will gladly forego the truly authentic life for one with less pain. Is this bad? At some level, no. But it can be taken too far.
Cf Norman Spinrad's "No Direction Home" (iirc the story).
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I'm also reminded of something that happend during my second depression. A friend of mine took me to a doctor, who asked him if I was acting differently. He said, "This isn't David", while I just stood there thinking, "Yes it is. This is what I'm really like deep inside."
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One of the things the author is speaking of is an age-old dichotomy: shall I be content or shall I be ambitious? I think many of us have a tendency to slip so far in one of those directions that we forget to use the other one even when it would serve us better. (Like my ex-boyfriend who kept accepting worse and worse deals from employers, even though he could have done something about it, because he was able to adjust to almost anything and still be content.)
I do have a problem with determining the "value" of happiness based on criteria such as earnings or education, mostly because I view long-term happiness as one of life's central goals, which earnings and education merely serve to support.
By and large I agree with the premise that we as a society have come to a point where we believe that any measure of unhappiness (no matter how fleeting or how justified) is bad and should be eradicated posthaste. As someone who has suffered from depression, here's what I know about myself: If I am tempted to describe myself as "feeling unhappy", then by definition I'm not dealing with depression, but something much milder that I'll get over (although I may have to work at it). When it's depression I'm hopeless and immovable. From in here it's obviously an entirely different creature.
I would never consider medicating unhappiness; I would definitely consider medicating depression.
I think one danger lies in that our medical system has gotten so good at medicating depression (and so many people stand to make money from doing so) that they are now marketing the image that no-one ever has to be unhappy again. They aren't distinguishing between a normal range of human feelings - feelings that make us human - and a crippling condition.
Wow, sorry to be so long-winded. Thank you for the interesting link.
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Exactly -- I was amazed that anyone would suggest that being too happy is bad because if you were less happy you might be impelled to make more money! (And where's the consideration of the flip side, that perhaps money, or the process of getting it, eventually causes more problems than it solves?) The only part of that argument that made sense to me was the political participation part, which incidentally is the one they didn't bother claiming to have evidence for.
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"Rather than "listening to Prozac," they want to listen to their hearts, not have them chemically silenced."
is utter bullshit. And yes, minimizing the pain of those with serious depression AND saying nasty things about their lives on medication in one breath.
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However, if the sadness and the grief extends past the "normal" grieving period (my psychologist mom says this should be approx. six months, after which people should begin to move on), or if the intensity of the emotion is debilitating, then some form of intervention is required.
But being emo and angsty is "in", and there are those who think that suffering provides some sort of social cachet. And this is unfortunate, because it tends to trivialize those who are genuinely, legitimately suffering from clinical depression.
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I wrote a whole lot more, but I'm going to put it in my own LJ instead of taking up space here.
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I believe that if the woman had sadness, loss of appetite and inability to concentrate on her job for an extended period after the breakup, this article would support it as depression and believe medication would be appropriate.
My takeaway was that while there absolutely is depression out there that does need attention and medication in addition to therapy, but that American culture has demonized ANY variety of sadness, even situation appropriate sadness (depressed mood after the death of a parent, an example in the article).
So I thought it was pretty balanced, saying that there is depression and then there is just regular life sadness, and we shouldn't confuse the two.
Am I giving the authors too much credit?
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