The harder I push him to find a job, the less time and effort he will put into looking, as if to prove that he won't be hounded into anything. He responds to my anxiety by shutting down--sleeping more and more, doing less around the house, and certainly doing less job hunting
Sounds like anxiety/depression on his part. Would job-hunting to-do lists help for either of you? (For you to define what things are in your domain (and out of it), and for him to not be overwhelmed?)
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Date: 2008-06-27 09:21 pm (UTC)Sounds like anxiety/depression on his part.
Would job-hunting to-do lists help for either of you? (For you to define what things are in your domain (and out of it), and for him to not be overwhelmed?)