Overwhelming grief

Rob, who had been watching the election returns all night, came and woke me about forty-five minutes ago and held me while I cried. ( I'm too upset to be temperate )

Visit to the orthodontist

I liked the woman our dentist recommended. We need to pull two of Fiona's teeth immediately, pull two of Delia's in January, start Delia on braces in January, and start Fiona with braces in 2006. The orthodontist gave us the financial information we needed to make some decisions. We will crunch the numbers on our budget, and then talk with the karate sensei about our options, and make our decision soon about karate lessons for me and the girls soon.

Awwww

Knowing how I felt about the election, Rob bought me a dozen red roses today.

what a guy

Trying to find common ground

In thinking over today's comment thread, I started to wonder: what do all Americans really agree on, no matter which side they voted yesterday? What can we build from there? I'm groping for utterly non-controversal commonalities, that neither side can reasonably claim that they have "staked" for their side alone, but that all Americans can say, oh, of course, we all believe that, no question.

Um. That every child should be wanted and welcomed. [Some suggest that this is not acceptable to pro-lifers because it's too "coded" for pro-choice. Well, pro-lifers? Do you object to this?] [change to:] That every child would have a loving home. [Thanks ambar]

Clean air and water.

Safe food and medicine.

That old age should be free from the fear of want.

That we are I am secure within our borders and when we I travel abroad.

That there is a value to society in educating the next generation. [Although not all are willing to help pay for it. cakmpls suggests that there are Americans who don't see the importance in placing a priority on anything for the generation after their own. Do you agree?][okay, per comment by cedarlibrarian below, this gets crossed off. *Sigh*]

Fiscal responsibility, a job for everyone who wants one [although some would limit jobs by race or gender][jiggery_pokery points out that full employment is held by some to drive up inflation, so there are some who don't want full employment, alas], food and shelter for everyone [not that we are willing to pay for these things for other people.]

An appreciation for the dignity of every human person regardless of age, sex, race, sexual preference, religious difference, or mental capability. [Sorry, _lindsay_, but too many Americans are not on board with these]

That people would be able to recover from setbacks such as loss of a job etc. [Again, although some of us aren't willing to pay for it]

That Americans can better their lot in life through their own hard work.

I recognize that the parties may differ in how these goals are achieved, but am I right that all agree they are worthwhile priorities? What others can you think of?

(kokopo? amandageist? Bueller?)

Edited to add: amandageist offered a long, thoughtful reply that ran too long to be a comment here, so she posted it in her own journal. I offer the link so that people can check it out and comment if they'd like.

Glare report: 11/3/04

I didn't have the heart for much. I took Icy Pleasures to the lunchroom to read and flag as I ate, but they had CNN going in there with the President's victory speech and I couldn't stomach that, so I escaped as soon as I'd eaten and just went back to my desk instead. I pulled up my "List Yourself" list for Jack and spent about twenty minutes thinking about it and poking at it; came up with a few more answers.

Tomorrow may be better. I hope.