
If I haven't told you (have I told you?) Fiona did hear (finally!) she'd been accepted to study this fall at the University of Lancaster in England. The original plan was that she would go over a month early, in mid-July, and spend a month or so running around with a backpack in Spain, France and Italy.
However.
She wouldn't buy her plane ticket. She wouldn't buy it and she wouldn't buy it, no matter how much I nagged her. Finally it dawned on me that there was just a trifle amount of uneasiness with this plan that was preventing her from putting it into action. I mean, it's rather daunting to think of going overseas to a country you've never seen before, where you don't speak the language (she does speak Spanish, but not French or Italian) and trying to travel by yourself for a month, as a young woman.
So I finally asked her whether she would be more comfortable going over just right before the semester started and skipping the month of travel. She would save a lot of money, and not have to deal with figuring out Eurail pass and hostels and foreign languages and traveling along safely and--after thinking it over for a day or two, she realized that in fact, she would. The uncertainty of Rob's health was another factor, too.
She will have opportunities to take weekend trips while studying at Lancaster, perhaps to Scotland, Wales, London, etc. There will be a 10 day break where she can perhaps take a shorter European trip, and by that point, she may have met another student who would be willing to travel with her. She gets released December 15, and she wants to be home for Christmas, but perhaps by that point she would feel much more confident and could take a few days at the end of the semester to travel, too.
The change in her plans has turned out to be a big relief. As I told her, I don't want to pour cold water on dreams, but it seemed that her back brain was telling her anyway that perhaps she was trying to bite off more than she could chew.
So: now she will be leaving in mid-August.